Does your occupation matter when it comes to dating?

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08 Jul 2021 6:05 PM by vicban05 Star rating. 2 posts Send private message

Hi guys! Quick question, do ladies care about a man's occupation? So the backstory is: I met this girl online and we hit it off right away. ButI tried to ask her out she told me that she likes my personality, but prefers dating a guy who works in the office. I think she said that it's because an office job sounds more "formal and stable"? I'm a system integrator, and personally I think it's a a quite decent job and I make enough money. Anyways, what are your thoughts? 

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08 Jul 2021 6:16 PM by windtalker Star rating. 1863 posts Send private message

The lady has politely dumped you mate...take a tip from me get you glad rags on go out and  talk to real the old days it was referred to as will enjoy it trust me.




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09 Jul 2021 5:18 PM by Roberto Star rating in Torremolinos. 4556 posts Send private message

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Next time, tell her you joined a forum about expat life in Spain specifically to get dating advice. Never fails for me laughheart



"Get your facts first, then you can distort them as you please"

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09 Jul 2021 5:30 PM by Kavanagh Star rating in Oil Drum Lane Newcas.... 1188 posts Send private message

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There is enough in the world for everyone, but not enough for the greedy!

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09 Jul 2021 8:21 PM by Jimbofinn Star rating in Chiclana De La Front.... 215 posts Send private message

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Mmmmm,. Methinks this guy could actually be looking for potential dates / partners on this forum.One wonders?



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11 Jul 2021 3:35 PM by acer Star rating. 1488 posts Send private message

Mmmmmmm...must be a sucker for punishment then!

But I doubt it as you never know the gender, orientation, status etc - but possibly it may improve the quality the posts?  Perhaps that's wishful thinking.

Don't argue with an idiot, he will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.

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11 Jul 2021 4:11 PM by johnmcmahon Star rating. 327 posts Send private message

Don't give up !  Faint heart never won fair lady. Send her flowers and gifts. Tell her you love and adore her. Ask her to marry you. Promise her the earth and deliver it to her feet while giving her a toe job. That's what I say !

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18 Oct 2021 4:50 PM by vikirey Star rating. 1 posts Send private message

As for me, ladies don't care about man's occupation, because we have our own deals which must be solved and waste time for man's occupation is unlogical. 

I prefer communicating with some guys online. And this is really much interesting.

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24 Oct 2021 2:21 PM by baz1946 Star rating. 2285 posts Send private message

Before you asked her out did you ask her how much she charges? I mean you know like is it a 50 for a nifty or more? Did you get a picture of her? Because I do know someone that did much the same, years ago and in another country, we saw the picture and the lady was beautiful, when they did eventually meet it looked like Granny turned up.

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26 Oct 2021 12:21 PM by tteedd Star rating in Hertfordshire & Punt.... 983 posts Send private message

Tell her you're Deputy Director and Head of Systems Integration.

Accidently mention that you don't know how the new guys manage of a quarter of your salary.

Pick her up in a classic Farrari and ask her if she would like to go to watch the Polo.


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06 Jan 2022 6:57 PM by Casered Star rating. 2 posts Send private message

That was just a reason to get rid of you. Maybe she didn't like you, but she didn't want to tell you not to offend. This is not a good reason to turn down a boy, especially since you have a pretty good job and a good salary.

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