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This blog is intended to be helpful to English-speaking foreign residents in Spain by explaining "How to ... " do certain things. "The DIY Guy" has lived in Spain full time since 2008. A fluent Spanish-speaker he reckons he knows his way round the bureaucracy, the indifference and sometimes downright rudeness of "funcionarios". He's also pretty good with his hands, doing up houses and renovating things.

HOW TO ..... DIVORCE
Wednesday, August 26, 2026

In the West between 1 and 2 out of every 3 marriages end in divorce.

In Spain divorce is a relatively new thing, only becoming legal after the death of Franco in 1975 and the return of Spain to a fully functioning democracy in 1978. Yet the divorce rate is even higher at 85%.

    [H, H and Z LLP]

 

The sachet of sugar that came with my coffee this morning proclaimed with a ring of truth about it: "El amor es fisica y el matrimonio es quimica".

 

Why marriages fail

According to Julia Fernandez writing in SUR recently, the most frequent errors committed in a marriage are:

 

Waiting for your spouse to change

          If there are no signs of this happening it's time to call it a day. Psychologist Lucia Solaun thinks, if you don't end it, "you are continuing with a relationship which is unhealthy or even toxic."

 

Not setting limits

          Setting limits is a way of protecting any relationship. "The limits can be emotional, physical and communicative," says Elena Sanchez, clinical director of yees! "[Such limits are healthy] if they don't seek to control your spouse but protect your own emotional space."

 

 

[SLO Health]    

Feeling responsible for the well-being of your spouse

 

               This makes it hard to set limits. So, avoid phrases like: 'the family is always the most important thing'; 'love conquers all'; 'you have to hold out because blood is thicker than water'.

 

Breaking up without a support network in place

                  Experts agree that divorce has to be a decision made with the head which means don't rush off without somebody to hold your hand.

"Nor should you isolate yourself completely from the rest of the family out of fear of conflict."

 

 

 

[UVA Today]    

 

So, if your marriage is in trouble or you are divorced, you have plenty of good advice to follow.

 

© The Crazy Guy MMXXVI

 

Pictures:

Deposit Photos, H H & Z LLP, SLO Health, UVA Today

 

Thanks:

Elena Sanchez, Lucia Solaun, Paul Whitelock, SUR

 

Tags:

Deposit Photos, divorce, Elena Sanchez, H H & Z LLP, Julia Fernandez, limit, Lucia Solaun, Paul Whitelock, SLO Health, spouse, SUR, The Crazy Guy, UVA Today

 

 



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HOW TO ..... CLEAN YOUR SWIMMING POOL
Saturday, August 8, 2026

I'm in danger of trying to teach grandmothers to suck eggs here, as everybody I know with a swimming pool professes to be an expert at keeping it clean, bright and free from green deposits (algae).

 

 

 

    [Wikipedia]

 

Yet, if you dig deeper and witness the number of pool owners, both Spanish and foreign, seeking advice in dedicated swimming pool shops, it is clearly a bigger problem than we think, particularly during very hot spells and when the calima is about.

 

So what to do?

Around where I live the problems of pool hygiene are compounded by the high levels of calcium in the water supply, usually from aquifers deep below ground.

To combat this, regular treatment with pH- is necessary. This helps to keep algae at bay.

Chlorine content must also be maintained at the correct level in order to keep the water hygienic, clear and in good condition.

 

[C-pool]    

 

After the winter shutdown, chlorine shock treatment may be necessary. This is a wonder product.

 

Cleaning

Regular cleaning is important in order to keep leaves and other debris out of the water and to hoover up calima dust which settles on the bottom of the pool.

The pool vacuum cleaner is invaluable and necessary, but we have recently bought a robot cleaner which has a mind of its own and vacuums the pool automatically. It's a-ma-zing!

 

Robots

Basically there are two types of pool robot: ones which require electricity and others which use the pool's suction system. The former are very expensive costing upwards of 1000 euros or more. The latter are much cheaper yet very effective; price 300 - 400 euros.

Having been quite sceptical about these devices I recently saw one of rhe suction-type in operation. Amazing is an understatement.

So, I have just bought the exact same model, a Zodiac MX8, manufactured in Vietnam. As the MX8 has been upgraded twice to the MX9 and the MX10, I got mine for the knockdown price of 283 euros from Decathlon.

[Disclaimer: other makes are available from other suppliers at different prices].

 

 

[Decathlon.es]    

Conclusion

Now, as we relax with a coffee and watch our robot do what we used to struggle to do, but much more efficiently, we can enjoy swimming in our debris-free, clear and healthy water.

Our next pool project is to invest in a pool cover to keep dust, leaves and other garden debris out of the water.

 

© The DIY Guy MMXXVI

 

Pictures:

C-pool. Decathlon.es, Wikipedia

 

Thanks:

Kevin Speak, Miguel Cabello, Paul Whitelock, Ronda Green

 

Tags:

algae. calima, C-pool, chlorine shock, cover, Decathlon.es, debris, DIY Guy, dust, green, hoover, Kevin Speak, leaves, Miguel Cabello, MX8, Paul Whitelock, robot, Ronda Green, vacuum, Wikipedia, Zodiac

 



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HOW TO ..... BREAK INTO your own HOUSE!
Wednesday, August 5, 2026

Have you ever locked yourself out of your house and couldn't get in? Exactly that happened to me the other day.

Carelessly I left a key in the lock on the inside of the front door and slammed the door shut and went off for a coffee.

When I came back my other key would not engage fully and I couldn't open the door.

 

What to do?

 

Option 1 - use a ladder to climb in through the bedroom window, which was open.

drawback - my ladders were inside the house.

 

 

Option 2 - saw through the downstairs reja and climb in.

drawback - I'd have to get the reja re-welded, a costly option.

 

 

Option 3 - call a locksmith to drill out the lock.

drawback - a costly option.

 

 

Option 4 - call my house insurance company.

 

 

Option 4 - consult the glazier who made the door and fitted it.

Jose Manuel came straightaway and using his magic touch, some vaseline, a sheet of plastic and a hammer and - open, Sesame! - we were in. It took all of five minutes.

How much? No charge!

 

Conclusion

So, all was well that ended well!

I'll be more careful in the future .....

 

© The DIY Guy MMXXVI

 

Pictures:

Blog Vault, Ladder Zone, Rejas para ventana

 

Thanks:

Jose Manuel Grande

 

Tags:

Blog Vault, DIY Guy, glazier, hammer, insurance, Jose Manuel Grande, key, ladder, Ladder Zone, locked out, locksmith, plastic, reja, Rejas para ventana, saw, vaseline, window

 



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