Hi Barrie & Mags
Welcome to the EOS forum! I assume that you were referring to the SADM website, which we gave up on eventually because of the endless posts re ringtones etc!
John and I have actually retired now and are living in Jumilla - not at SADM obviously, however we bought a new apartment on the edge of town. As you will see from my signature, I have had a book published relating our experiences (both good and bad!) which includes case studies telling the stories of a few other couples on the forum.
Good to hear from you. If you decide to come over to Spain, it would be nice to meet up with you both - just drop me a PM.