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Shall I stay or shall I go?

Here we are in soggy Tunbridge Wells, in a house we hate, but still we can't quite make the decision to leave. This is the story of why we are in this position, and hopefully how eventually we'll change life for the better. Maybe it will ring a few bells with some of you!

Like a circle in a spiral..............
Sunday, March 26, 2017

I had spent so long working, right up until I left for the airport that I wasn't really looking forward to my break.  

On the way to the airport I was thinking that it was a stupid waste of time and money which could be better used.

Even when I had landed and collected my hire car, all the way to Chez Nous, I wasn't feeling exited or even particularly happy.

However.

As soon as I had entered our Spanish home, and made that first cup of tea, I found that I was almost euphoric. All the tension around my neck and shoulders disappeared, and I felt relaxed almost to the point of horizontal.

I wandered around opening everything up, making sure all my bits and pieces were where I wanted them and relaxed onto the sofa with a good book. I was in heaven.

Knowing that I was going to wake up to a bright sunny day, with no-one and nothing to attend to I slept better than I have for ages, without any sleeping tablets.

Writing this down it becomes clear to me that we really should up sticks and move out, - but then all the doubts crowd in.

How will we live with very little income?

I'm quite shy, I can seem a bit offhand and it takes me a long time to make friends, although when I do they are friends for life. I'm not a joiner of clubs, and I don't drink alcohol and want to party. I like to read, I like buy and sell quality clothes and other 'girlie' stuff, these are quite lonesome activities, basically I'm an introvert.

Will I feel very cut off from the life I have always known? I've lived in the Tunbridge Wells area all my life. I see people who I recognise (not necessarily friends) everywhere I go and it makes me feel secure.

Then there are my Sons, one not yet quite standing on his own feet, the other married with 2.5 grandchildren who I won't see as often if we move to Spain.

These are the things I can't quite leave...yet.................even though all the time I'm in the UK I want to.



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Life in the fast lane
Sunday, March 26, 2017

I have spent the last week or so working my socks off to allow me to be able to afford a few days in our little house in Estepona this weekend.

My Husband, I'll call him James from now on to save being so formal, went out for a few days the week before last, but my passport was being renewed with an even worse picture than the previous one, so I wasn't able to go with him. Anyway, we have a cat and a dog here, and someone has to feed them.

He arrived with some trepidation in case some other mishap had occurred whilst we were away, but apart from the damp musty smell from the floods, all was well. Our gardener Ancelmo has been keeping the place in good order and the pool man has finished repairs to the pool, so hopefully it's all Happy Days!

In fact, apart from slightly disappointing weather, which is not unusual at this time of year he looked forward to a nice time bumbling around looking in DIY stores for the things that we'll need when we go out in summer to start more serious renovations. 

Unfortunately...the hot water went off. On inspection, there was a strong smell of gas and the pilot light wouldn't.

He called in Julian. Julian is a Polish tri-lingual builder recommended to us by our estate agent Victoria. He and his team can do anything. Julians' man had a look at the boiler, fiddled a bit, and said it was okay,- but it wasn't. The next day it went out again and so it was decided that it would be best to spend 400 euros on a new one.

I suppose that's another thing we can cross off our 'to do' list!

So I'm looking forward to a few days in the warmth with nothing to do.

Here's hoping!



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Home from Home with two floods.
Saturday, March 4, 2017

We are really pleased with our little two bedroom bungalow, but we knew when we bought it that we would have to spend some money on it. The previous owners had owned it for a very long time but had never really spent any money on maintenance so everything is held together with blutack and sellotape!

On our exiting first visit after the sale, I quickly removed all the horrid ornaments and rugs, and set about cleaning the place from top to bottom and adding some bits and pieces of our own. It looked a little better, but we soon discovered that we didn't have the proper tools to do any serious work on the place, so we just sat back and enjoyed it.

It didn't matter, we had our own private detached house with a real pool, and it was warm and sunny, what else could we want? As we soon discovered, new drains would have been nice.

Without going into too much detail, we were forced to call out a drains expert to remove a blockage, which had been caused mainly by tree roots compromising the old drains. The expert manged to clear the blockage, but explained that we would have to build completely new drains very soon.

Oh well!

The pool is fabulous, a good size and there's a dolphin motif at the bottom and at first glace looks lovely and blue. However, there was a fine layer of dust, presumably from the roadworks which however much we tried to clean and filter out stubbornly refused to budge. We called in another expert, he did something or other and it improved slightly until the gardener tried to move a lever on the mechanism only for it to come off in his hands!

Oh well!

So far, so pretty much as expected, so we shrugged our shoulders, tried not to count how little money we had left and flew back to England in a good frame of mind, but aware that we would have to buckle down to get some cash for proper maintenance.

We both popped out for a couple of long weekends, but it wasn't until we went in January that the main event occurred. My Husband went out the day before me because I will NOT get up in the middle of the night to catch a plane, I feel ill all day, so I will only get on an afternoon or evening flight, and nothing will persuade me otherwise.  

I did the right thing. As he walked down the steps to the front door, he looked through the kitchen window, and fancied he saw a shimmer on the terracotta tiles, which seemed not quite right. As he opened the door he was presented with an inch of water all over the main living area. Wading through, the entered the bedroom to find that although no longer under water that too had been soaked, including our lovely new mattress which had been lain on the floor because we hadn't yet bought the bed base.

Luckily it was lovely and sunny, so he opened all the doors and windows, dragged the rugs and mattress outside and set about restoring some kind or normality before I arrived the following evening.

On investigation he discovered that we had had two floods!! The water softener on the dishwasher had broken and the living room had been flooded with clean mains water for weeks, and the terrible rains had entered the bedroom which had virtually no guttering, and is built into the hillside at the back. It took a lot of work to get the place habitable again, and it still smells a bit musty, but hopefully after the summer sun it will be okay. The terracotta tiles are covered in salt stain, the bedroom has brown watermarks on the walls, and we have a new bill to re-build the drains and install new guttering, and repairing the front tiled area of over 6,000 Euros.

We STILL love it!

 

 



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