22 Sep 2008 3:39 PM:

Amanda

I too apologise, my only excuse, and it is an unforgivable one, is like most people am feeling fed up to the back teeth of the state of the place,moaners and people pointing the finger at me .As i am around alot i have coped the brunt end of other peoples jibes about/against other people if that makes sense. 

so my sincere apologies for the upbrupt manner i spoke to you, i did not read your comment as if it was written in humour, i did read it like it was written to wind me up even more, but as you have said that was not the intention and that it was written to be funny, which you have explained and apologised for ; though clearly you did not need to apologise as it was written for humour ;which i now understand but didnt at the time.

anyhow, my apology still stands, i was rude, and i think rather than taking anger management  classes what i really need to do is get away from here fore a while so i dont keep getting bogged down with all the hassles here as its affecting my rationality on things. when i come back i'll either be happy or in the frame of mind of being stronger and able to cope with the selling  process  ( well its my folk who want to sell up/move back to the UK , and i am cushioning/juggling all their problems tho' clearly not that well)

so to everyone who thought my response was a poor one, i also apologise to you as well, i have no excuse only an explanation - fed up with the place and wish i could turn the clocks back for my folk

i hope everyone accepts the apology, if so put me out of my worry and let me know , yes i did fly off the handle and i shouldnt have done so and i am very very sorry.

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19 Sep 2008 10:06 PM:

to the previous writer - aka - the naked washerwoman -  shame on you, and your attitude

i think your arrogant reply basically confirms all the other references re dunas de cope being an all round mistake for the near majority, or should i say those with some decorum/principles.

so here's a taste of your own medicine as you clearly have a chip on your shoulder so pardon the punn : but as they say when it rains it pours,and, if only you had a rotary line then you could shove it where the sun dont shine before someone else does.

maybe now youll think twice before responding in such a pompous holier than thou attitude, and do yourself a favour  : enrole in anger management classes or youll find it very hard to fit in anywhere.

sally



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24 Jul 2008 12:00 AM:

am totally thick here, have tried to get the dunes de cope message/news but haven't yet worked out how.

so far all i have got is past conversation - yelloe white - but things that interested me wont allow me to click on to reply or ask that person a question.

also am trying to find out when the annual meeting for agm is in 2008. if nothing else can someone tell me - when where etc.

as you can see i am not just having a bad hair day but a bad pc day

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22 Jul 2008 4:28 PM:

parents are nearing retirement age but dad draws pension now and dad gets industrial benefit due to a major accident with machinary at work.

not sure if this would stop if they moved out to spain completely, to be honest what was on the news about benefit changes wasn't much help -as usual just mp's trying to claim who's idea it was etc rather than really saying what the changes would be and how they would affect people.

mum and dad do want to move out 100% and have bought in cash no mortgage etc but dad wouldn't (as he gets older) be able to travel back and for re industrial benefit if they wont pay it if he leaves uk.

as you can tell he doesn't, as no body would right now, want to speak to dwp incase they themselves get it wrong, and talking means giving out info which he thinks may do more harm if they close him down in error.  Dad had serious accident so its not like he's claiming for toothache ok - just in case anyone thinks he's going to be moving to Spain and taking up referreering a footie match)

Sally



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22 Jul 2008 12:00 AM:

hi,

parents bought apt 2007, opinions and advice wanted on : 

1/. anyone selling up in uk  - kissing goodbye to living in UK for good.

2/. anyone on any benefits in the UK eg Incapacity/sickness/industrial injury benefit - if so  - can you still claim these ?  

Hopefully someone using  'dunas de cope' can respond, any thoughts/info/advice/opinions welcome.

Parents want  to sell up in UK,: cost of staying in UK too much for them,  city life is lonely & cold for retirement age, UK neighbours aren't friendly , UK children rude, need I /theysay more.  So I am trying to help and get feedback on this for them.

So...... is anyone about to sell up in the UK and move over perm for a better life?


Sally

 

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