19 May 2007 7:59 PM:
Hopefully this comment will be left to stand and we can end this conversation once and for all and not let either forum turn into battlegrounds. I think it is a real shame if that happens as we have both worked hard and I am sure that everyone would agree that they do not log on to read unpleasnt comments. I certainly do not want unplesantness however nor do I want a public slating.
I have never posted anything personally nasty about anyone and do not intend to start now.
Justin you make some valid points and I did spam people when I first started the site. In reality this is because I was very excited about the site I had created and wanted to be in a position to share it with fellow owners.
I did not think about the impact and in hindsight realised that it was a little insensitive of me. I added a link to your site so that it in some way made amends and thought you may have realised this. Many people have PM ed others about your site or talked about it online and I have no problem as I had not viewed you as competition as you obviously have me. This will not change as I am not commercial.
In terms of integrity and ethics then I think these are my strongest qualities. I did not lie about my site being commercial. It was never intended to be so and infact I resisted requests for it to advertise business for a long time. Anyone who has been a member from early on with know this themselves.
I think the biggest misunderstanding between us is that you see me as running a business and therefore having business ethics and a cynical desire for big profit margins. I am not running a business however. Any contracts or commercial items on my site are set up for the pure benefit of owners. Unlike you the people who have bought there are not just site traffic but my friends and future neighbours. I do nothing orientated by money but only by the desire to forge a nice community where we can all share information and help each other and hopefully get a cheaper price along the way. some people have paid a small fee for advertising but this has only covered some of the costs of the site.
If I was running the site for business then I would be a very poor business lady.
please do not let your site turn into a ground for unpleasantness as this benefits no-one. I had no idea that you were so angered by me and therefore apologise
All the best
Anna
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