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A Foot in Two Campos

Thoughts from a brand new home-owner in the Axarquía region of Málaga. I hope there might be some information and experiences of use to other new purchasers, plus the occasional line to provoke thought or discussion.

51 - Bedding In
Thursday, April 11, 2013 @ 9:13 PM

Springtime.  My first Axarquía spring.   A year since I came house-hunting in Colmenar.  This week my white-van-man brought my final three boxes, some lamps, and the comfy leather chair from mum's bungalow. 

Having got through my first winter I understand more about why Spanish people organise things differently in the cold season and move into a smaller part of their houses.  So I'm slowly turning the downstairs bedroom into a study / winter room.  I've got rid of the twin beds and have put in a lovely metal day-bed, comfortable as a sofa for me to lounge on for reading or writing, and a handy spare bed when needed.  The sun streams in all year round, and it's a room that's easy to keep warm all day in winter.  It's not finished yet but, as in all things, poco a poco, little by little.  That room is my project.  The leather chair is perfect in there, and the day-bed is really pretty.

Buying the day-bed didn't go entirely smoothly.  I'd picked one in a Segunda Mano (second-hand shop) and paid for it, arranging delivery for a few days later.  Then an hour later I saw a prettier one that I fell in love with in another shop - aaargh!  I phoned the owner of the first shop, grovelled and apologised and asked if I could change my mind.  He was pleasant, and said I could go straight back that morning and have my money back.  Phew!  But by the time I got there he too had changed his mind and would only offer me a credit note.  By then of course I'd paid for the second day-bed.  I argued (it's by far the best way of improving your language skills!), but got nowhere and left unhappily with the credit note.

A few days later I met up with my Spanish inter-cambio friend (we meet once or twice a week to help each other improve our language skills).  He suggested I use the libro de reclamaciones (complaints book) and checked my draft for accuracy.  I plucked up my courage and went back to the shop and submitted my first ever hoja de reclamación (complaint form).  It's unlikely to work, because obviously the shop owner is now saying he never offered me the cash refund.  Still, as always I turned the experience into an opportunity to practice the language, learning and using different vocabulary in different settings. 

Springtime.  My first Axarquía spring.  The weather is very changeable.  The morning walk to the bakery alternates between a sprint in a mackintosh and a glorious languorous stroll bathed in warm sunshine.   Slowly unpacking books, putting up hooks and shelves, hanging my print of Zara McQueen’s painting of Castle Hill in Shaftesbury ….. home-making.  Thinking about getting the top terrace right.  Morning coffee in a bar, reading the Spanish newspaper.  Some good beach days.  Getting to know the wonderful city of Málaga.  Meals in and out with friends.  Language practice.  Lunch at a chiringuito (beach cafe).  An opportunity to think about how retirement might look and feel.  Beginning to realise this might be what it looks like. 

 

Liking it.

 

 

© Tamara Essex 2013

 

 



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Maddiemack said:
Friday, April 12, 2013 @ 4:48 PM

Aha...I had wondered how the Spanish manage to keep warm when the temperatures drop. Your study/winter room looks lovely, very inviting. What a great idea. I want one!


nikky said:
Saturday, April 13, 2013 @ 5:59 AM

Hi Tamara: would you mind me contacting you privately by email? I have questions about the area you are in.
My husband I are bought our place in Olvera in 2010 as we loved how Spanish and friendly the town was with lots of expats who were not "run of the mill". Like you I inherited some money and as we live here in Oregon in the States, it seemed a great plan to buy a house in Spain rather than leave the money in the bank - a foothold back.
We still love the house, but never intended to live there for extended periods, but we do come over once a year for our Spanish "fix". The house is quite small, ancient, but modernized, a lovely white townhouse on a very, very steep hill. Anyhow it looks as though my husband's work is in jeopardy and so we want this time to spend a little time looking around for something in the country we might be able to rent long term to see if we like the area... looking at yours, Sedella and Frigiliana as potentials as the park is so close by - we'd be bringing a dog if we have to move.
I see you helped Gerald find someone to help him in his search and my question is if you have a special person you would recommend who helps people to look who you would trust. We were amazingly lucky in Olvera as we were rash but they are totally wonderful, trustworthy, fantastic people.
Thanks!
Nikky


Tamara said:
Saturday, April 13, 2013 @ 7:49 AM

Hi Nikky - sure, just drop me a PM (private message) through Eye on Spain :-)


Louise said:
Saturday, April 13, 2013 @ 9:36 AM

Your 'Winter' room looks lovely and it is a very pretty day bed! Our friends are always so surprised when I tell them it gets cold in the winter and even snows! I am glad that we bought a property with central heating and a nice Chimenea in the lounge as I can't stand being cold. I don't think theres a part of our house that we could make into a specific 'Winter' room but I guess I'll know more after we've been there for a winter later this year. :)


Tamara said:
Saturday, April 13, 2013 @ 10:02 AM

Ooh Louise - central heating! What a luxury! You probably won't need a winter hibernation room then :-). Are you getting really excited now? When do you come over?


Nikky said:
Saturday, April 13, 2013 @ 6:15 PM

I must be exceptionally dumb, but i don't see anywhere through Eye on Spain that has anything about contacting someone through a PM, Can you tell me where to find that?
Thanks


Tamara said:
Saturday, April 13, 2013 @ 7:30 PM

No you're right Nikki, it seems you can't message someone direct from the blogs (which is odd). Go to the main forum (click "home", top left). Look at the list of recent threads. Click on the one about Losing BBC TV Channels. I posted in there, about the 4th post. In the forums you can then just click on someone's name, and it shows you their profile, and an option to send them a message. If you do that, then we'll be in Private Message mode :-)


Patricia (Campana) said:
Sunday, April 14, 2013 @ 2:02 PM

Tamara, so lovely to see you home-making and your place looks lovely. There is such a warm and positive vibe from your blogs.

Nikky: I enjoyed your post too. All such a change from the negative stuff about how the Spanish are this, that and the other, that they rip-off the expats, charge expats higher prices, don't want the expats at all in Spain, don't like the expats.
After decades living in Spain (nearly all my life in fact), I can say I have never had that experience. I have never been over-charged, nor ripped off. So, the real question is: where does the problem lie?

Certainly, there are cases of rip-offs, usually perpetrated by expat cowboy "carpenters", "plumbers", "builders".




Gerald said:
Monday, April 15, 2013 @ 11:08 AM

2 days I've been here Tamara & I love it. It's so good to now have a little time to read & reply to all the blogs, something I have missed. Think its gonna take me ages to "unfold" all my things from England & find proper places for them, but as you poco a poco.


Tamara said:
Tuesday, April 16, 2013 @ 9:18 PM

Welcome home Gerry!


Patricia (Campana) said:
Wednesday, April 17, 2013 @ 9:04 PM

So glad all went well, Gerry. Enjoy the process of settling into your new place. Lots of luck and happiness and good health to enjoy it.
Patricia


calamitykay said:
Wednesday, May 7, 2014 @ 6:51 PM

Hello there Tamara,
I am slowly working my way through your last year (2013) blogs and am still captivated by your style of writing - it is so fresh, open and honest and also though provoking!
When
John and I move in September we too will be retirees, both having opted for early retirement, I am 53 and John 56 but like others will recognise, we cannot accept that a number dictates how you should or shouldn't live your life. I am still 25 in my mind and always will be lol.
We are SO looking forward to the move, it is a learning curve that will be a continual one I'm sure.
I'm looking forward to reading your more recent blogs :-)
xxx


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